{"id":2126,"date":"2020-05-02T10:53:08","date_gmt":"2020-05-02T10:53:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/?p=2126"},"modified":"2020-06-25T07:03:45","modified_gmt":"2020-06-25T07:03:45","slug":"kelly-sullivan-walden","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/kelly-sullivan-walden\/","title":{"rendered":"Love can be a dream: secrets of lasting love and dream interpretation, with special guest host Kelly Sullivan Walden, the Dear Abby of dreams"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border: none;\" title=\"LOVE CAN BE A DREAM: SECRETS OF LASTING LOVE AND DREAM INTERPRETATION, WITH SPECIAL GUEST HOST KELLY SULLIVAN WALDEN, THE DEAR ABBY OF DREAMS \" src=\"https:\/\/www.podbean.com\/media\/player\/fmxfg-dac661?from=usersite&amp;skin=1&amp;share=1&amp;fonts=Helvetica&amp;auto=0&amp;download=1&amp;version=1\" width=\"100%\" height=\"122\" scrolling=\"no\" data-name=\"pb-iframe-player\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">On Love University, I had the pleasure of being interviewed by a special guest host, Kelly Sullivan Walden, the Dream Doctor. She interviewed me about dreams, love, and the meaning of life. Here are some nuggets of knowledge we shared on the show:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0<\/b><b>*Dreams can guide you. <\/b>\u00a0You may think that you don\u2019t dream, but research shows that you spend approximately two hours per night in the state known as REM sleep, where dreams are most likely to happen. The key to remembering your dreams is to keep a notebook next to your bed and write down everything you can think of about the dream when you wake up. Write down any emotions, colors, or sequences. The more you write down, the more you will remember. Dreams can provide insight into problems and can be a type of hidden intuition that guides you in what to do about relationships, careers, or lifestyle decisions. To learn more, read books, listen to podcasts and videos about dream interpretation, or talk to a dream coach (dream therapist) about your dreams and what they mean. You may be surprised about how much you can learn about yourself and your life when you interpret your dreams\u2014&#8221;the royal road to your unconscious.\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0<\/b><b>*Accept yourself as you are.<\/b>\u00a0 In my classic bestseller, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.in\/dp\/B000YQHMG0?ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_Ol2Ywb1Y4HHHK&amp;tag=ammbt-20&amp;linkCode=kpe\"><i>LoveTypes<\/i><\/a>, I taught readers how to determine and embrace their unique LoveType, one of 16 romantic personality styles, so they could find lasting love.\u00a0 The first step is to accept yourself as you are. Maybe you are the Idealistic Philosopher who loves psychology, philosophy, and the meaning of life. Or, you are a Caretaker who loves to take care of people. Perhaps, you are the Craftsperson who enjoys hands-on excitement, or the General who has a commanding presence. To find a compatible mate, you first need to appreciate who you are.\u00a0 If you\u2019re an Idealistic Philosopher, be a proud one who takes pleasure in finding the meaning in life and talking about higher level ideas to help humanity. If you\u2019re a General, embrace your powerful nature and don\u2019t worry that some insecure people may be intimidated by you; there are plenty of individuals who will respect and admire your inner strength. \u00a0In the dating world, don\u2019t try to change yourself to win someone\u2019s heart\u2014what I call the \u201cDating Masquerade (putting on a psychological mask to impress a potential mate).\u201d\u00a0 Instead, from the beginning of meeting someone, express your true, authentic self, and naturally connect with the person who resonates with your style.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>*Find a similar type to love<\/b>.\u00a0 Although opposites may seem to attract in dating situations, research shows that couple similarities in values, preferences, and beliefs seem to work better for successful long-term relationships. The reason is that similarities in key areas of a relationships tend to minimize conflict and ensure a more compatible and harmonious love partnership. This doesn\u2019t mean that you have to be exactly the same as your mate\u2014you may love bowling while your partner craves opera\u2014that\u2019s perfectly fine. The important thing is that you share similarities in the important things in life\u2014how you view the world, how you make decisions, how you organize your life.\u00a0 In my latest book, <i>GuyTypes<\/i> (<b>put AMAZON link here<\/b>), I talk about the four Love Groups\u2014Meaning Seekers, Excitement Seekers, Security Seekers, and Knowledge Seekers.\u00a0 Once you know which group you fall into, you can network and get involved with groups, activities, and organizations that have a significant number of individuals who share the same type. If you\u2019re a Meaning Seeker, for example, you can meet a like-minded Meaning Seeker at psychology or spirituality talks, events, or meetup groups.\u00a0 If you\u2019re a Knowledge Seeker, you can find a fellow Knowledge Seeker at activities and groups related to science, technology, business, and innovation. Regardless of your type, the good news is that there is someone for you who matches your nature and can be a wonderful long-term compatible love partner.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Yes, you can make your dreams come true\u2014in love, finances, career, health, and happiness.\u00a0 You need to embrace who you are\u2014your unique personality style\u2014and make the effort to understand your complete nature, including the unconscious parts of our mind that are expressed in your dreams. By fully acknowledging who you are\u2014your wishes, dreams, desires, values, and goals\u2014you can achieve what you want in life, including finding and keeping a lasting love relationship with the person of your dreams.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">CLICK HERE \u00a0(PUT LINK TO PODCAST) FOR MORE ON \u00a0\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/loveuniversity.podbean.com\/e\/love-can-be-a-dream-secrets-of-lasting-love-and-dream-interpretation-with-special-guest-host-kelly-sullivan-walden-the-dear-abby-of-dreams\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=https:\/\/loveuniversity.podbean.com\/e\/love-can-be-a-dream-secrets-of-lasting-love-and-dream-interpretation-with-special-guest-host-kelly-sullivan-walden-the-dear-abby-of-dreams\/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1588501933935000&amp;usg=AFQjCNE02DkL_b-a6EE-r6YWa8o5yigCKA\">LOVE CAN BE A DREAM: SECRETS OF LASTING LOVE AND DREAM INTERPRETATION, WITH SPECIAL GUEST HOST, KELLY SULLIVAN WALDEN, THE DEAR ABBY OF DREAMS <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On Love University, I had the pleasure of being interviewed by a special guest host, Kelly Sullivan Walden, the Dream Doctor. 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