{"id":2510,"date":"2021-03-22T05:02:27","date_gmt":"2021-03-22T05:02:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/?p=2510"},"modified":"2021-03-22T05:02:27","modified_gmt":"2021-03-22T05:02:27","slug":"everything-youve-always-wanted-to-know-about-dating-sex-and-romance-what-your-mama-didnt-tell-you-and-your-papa-didnt-know-with-marni-battista-dating-expert-extraordina","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/everything-youve-always-wanted-to-know-about-dating-sex-and-romance-what-your-mama-didnt-tell-you-and-your-papa-didnt-know-with-marni-battista-dating-expert-extraordina\/","title":{"rendered":"Everything You\u2019ve Always Wanted To Know About Dating, Sex, And Romance: What Your Mama Didn\u2019t Tell You And Your Papa Didn\u2019t Know. With Marni Battista, Dating Expert Extraordinaire."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"EVERYTHING YOU\u2019VE ALWAYS WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT DATING, SEX, AND ROMANCE: WHAT YOUR MAMA DIDN\u2019T TELL YOU AND YOUR PAPA DIDN\u2019T KNOW. WITH MARNI BATTISTA, DATING EXPERT EXTRAORDINAIRE\" allowtransparency=\"true\" height=\"150\" width=\"100%\" style=\"border: none;\" scrolling=\"no\" data-name=\"pb-iframe-player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.podbean.com\/player-v2\/?i=gdbc7-fe3ac7-pb&#038;from=embed&#038;share=1&#038;download=1&#038;skin=1&#038;btn-skin=7&#038;size=150\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/love-university-with-dr-alexander-avila\/id1245020886\"><b>CLICK\u00a0 HERE TO HERE THE FULL SHOW<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFORMATION: <a href=\"http:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/\">loveuniversity.love<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0By Dr. Alex Avila<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is a lot of misinformation out there about dating, romance, and love. Our guest on Love <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">University, Marni Battista, dating and relationship expert, shed some light on some of the\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">misconceptions about dating and how to break through to find the love of your life. Here are some <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of the nuggets of wisdom that we learned from Marni:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>*Find your love center<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0 Your love center is the strong and powerful part of you; confident, sexy, and lovable. To find your love center, practice self-care.\u00a0 Eat right, exercise, meditate or engage in a spiritual practice.\u00a0 Love yourself and you will have the confidence and energy to attract the love of your life.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>*Erase your negative self-talk<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0 Negative self-talk, what you say to yourself, is one of the biggest stumbling blocks when it comes to finding love. Perhaps, you\u2019ve indulged in negative self-talk about finding a love partner, thinking, \u201cAll the good ones are taken,\u201d \u201cOr I live in a terrible place to find the right match.\u201d\u00a0 According to Marni, there is no wrong place or right place, geographically, to find your love partner. You can find love in Alaska just as easily as you can find it in Manhattan. The important factor in finding your soul mate is your self-talk\u2014what you say to yourself in your inner thoughts.\u00a0 Instead of believing that \u201cAll the good ones are taken,\u201d you can say, \u201cI will find the right one for me by doing the things I love and being authentically me.\u201d\u00a0 With a positive self-talk mentality about dating and love, you will be more motivated, confident, and persistent in your soul mate journey. Also, by maintaining a positive attitude and good humor, you will be more attractive to others. Consequently, you will have a better chance of finding an ideal partner who is attracted to your good charm and positive energy.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">*<\/span><b>Get out of your cozy comfortable condo<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0 Mani uses the condo metaphor to describe a single person who is comfortable staying home and not risking emotional rejection or failure in the dating world. Yet, this existence is not really comfortable because the pangs of loneliness and lovelessness gnaw at the isolated single person. The key is to get out of your shell and think of the positive energy you\u2019re able to generate when you do something you love, whether it\u2019s art, science, exercise, working with your hands, helping people, or a meditative\/spiritual practice. Imagine that when you go out and meet eligible singles, you are carrying the same energy with you. Once you visualize this powerful and attractive energy within you, it\u2019s time for you to go out and meet quality people. You can go out physically or online and meet like-minded people who share similar interests and hobbies. When you do that, you\u2019ll increase your likelihood of meeting a compatible person who resonates with your style.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">*Date with dignity.\u00a0 Marni tells her coaching students to believe in their own dignity and self-worth. Instead of having the \u201cPick me\u201d desperate mentality (hoping someone will choose them for love), they can rearrange their thinking and create an \u201cI am irresistible\u201d vibe about themselves. When singles increase their self-worth, they will naturally attract the person who harmonizes with their authentic nature.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, you can find date with dignity and live courageously. Dating and finding the right person takes <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">effort and courage, but you can accomplish your love goals.\u00a0 According to Marni, the love quest is <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">based on a paradoxical approach.\u00a0 On one hand, you need to treat dating like your career and put\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">effort on achieving clearly defined goals (getting your wardrobe and pictures together for dating <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">apps, participating in social groups with like-minded people; going on x number of dates to find the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">right love match).\u00a0 On the other hand, you need to give up the fight. Stop trying so hard to make <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that special someone like you, or to get married by a certain time. Instead, you should focus on <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">loving yourself, being the best you can be, and extending your positive and loving energy without <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">expectation into the world. When you do that, you will attract the right love partner for you, and\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you will enjoy a lifetime of happiness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Click here <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">for more on <\/span><b><a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/love-university-with-dr-alexander-avila\/id1245020886\">EVERYTHING YOU\u2019VE ALWAYS WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT DATING, SEX, AND ROMANCE: WHAT YOUR MAMA DIDN\u2019T TELL YOU AND YOUR PAPA DIDN\u2019T KNOW. WITH MARNI BATTISTA, DATING EXPERT EXTRAORDINAIRE<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>CLICK\u00a0 HERE TO HERE THE FULL SHOW CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFORMATION: loveuniversity.love \u00a0By Dr. Alex Avila There is a lot of misinformation out there about dating, romance, and love&#8230; <span class=\"read_more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/everything-youve-always-wanted-to-know-about-dating-sex-and-romance-what-your-mama-didnt-tell-you-and-your-papa-didnt-know-with-marni-battista-dating-expert-extraordina\/\">Read more<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2511,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21,9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2510"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2510"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2510\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2512,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2510\/revisions\/2512"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2511"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2510"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2510"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2510"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}