{"id":2514,"date":"2021-04-06T06:22:19","date_gmt":"2021-04-06T06:22:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/?p=2514"},"modified":"2021-04-06T06:22:19","modified_gmt":"2021-04-06T06:22:19","slug":"become-a-master-couple-and-create-the-love-of-your-life-with-kyle-benson-intimate-relationship-coach-and-former-researcher-for-the-world-renowned-gottman-marriage-institute","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/become-a-master-couple-and-create-the-love-of-your-life-with-kyle-benson-intimate-relationship-coach-and-former-researcher-for-the-world-renowned-gottman-marriage-institute\/","title":{"rendered":"Become A Master Couple And Create The Love Of Your Life, With Kyle Benson, Intimate Relationship Coach And Former Researcher For The World Renowned Gottman Marriage Institute"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"BECOME A MASTER COUPLE AND CREATE THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE, WITH KYLE BENSON, INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP COACH AND FORMER RESEARCHER FOR THE WORLD RENOWNED GOTTMAN MARRIAGE INSTITUTE\" allowtransparency=\"true\" height=\"150\" width=\"100%\" style=\"border: none; min-width: min(100%, 430px);\" scrolling=\"no\" data-name=\"pb-iframe-player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.podbean.com\/player-v2\/?i=b3vxr-fec82d-pb&#038;from=embed&#038;share=1&#038;download=1&#038;skin=1&#038;btn-skin=7&#038;size=150\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: left;\">It\u2019s Spring and love is in the air. Would you like to improve your relationship and keep your love strong and fulfilling? Now you can with some of the valuable tips we learned from our guest on Love University, Kyle Benson, intimate relationship coach.\u00a0\u00a0Kyle worked with Dr. John Gottman, the world-renowned marriage researcher who can accurately predict whether a marriage will fail or succeed by observing a couple&#8217;s communication style for a short period of time. Now a popular relationship coach, Kyle shared his insights on how to become a \u201cMaster Couple,\u201d and build a harmonious and joyful relationship. Master couples are those who can manage conflict well and are each other\u2019s best friends. Master couples are able to:<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: left;\"><strong>*Know each other\u2019s Love Maps<\/strong>:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Master couples know each other intimately and thoroughly\u2014they have a \u201cLove Map\u201d to their partner. On an everyday basis, you can learn your partner\u2019s love map by asking open-ended questions and getting to know your love partner\u2019s deepest values, preferences, fears, joys, and desires (\u201cWhat are you afraid of? What makes you happy?\u201d).\u00a0\u00a0Love is really a \u201cdeep understanding of another.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0The more you know about each other, the closer you will feel.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: left;\"><strong>*Turn toward each other:<\/strong>\u00a0Master couples listen to and support each other.\u00a0\u00a0When one of them makes a remark, \u201cLook at that beautiful bird over there,\u201d\u00a0\u00a0the other may reply, \u201cYes, it\u2019s beautiful.\u201d Disaster couples, on the other hand, either argue (\u201cStop wasting your time; get the chores done), or ignore each other (stay on their phone).\u00a0\u00a0Turning toward each other is important because it shows that you care enough to listen to your partner and affirm them.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: left;\"><strong>*Give each other the benefit of the doubt<\/strong>. Sometimes your partner may make a mistake or may do something that irritates or bothers you. When they don\u2019t do something that you asked them to do (go to the store), don\u2019t be too quick to jump on them with criticism (\u201cYou\u2019re lazy\u201d). Instead, give them the benefit of the doubt and ask, \u201cAre you tired? Did you have a tough day at work?&#8221; When you demonstrate empathy like this, your partner will appreciate your kindness and will return the favor.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: left;\"><strong>*Fill their love bank.<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0Master couples make more positive than negative statements to their partner (\u201cHoney, I love the way you make love,\u201d \u201cYou\u2019re so smart\u201d). Disaster couples do the opposite. They start their conversations with negatives (\u201cYou never\u2026Why do you did this?\u201d) and continue with more negatives (\u201cYou\u2019re stupid; you\u2019re a jerk\u201d).\u00a0\u00a0When you and your partner sincerely compliment and express gratitude for each other&#8217;s good traits and helpful behaviors, you build a love bank: a repository of all the good energies and feelings that can help your relationship get through the tough times. Make a daily deposit\u2014say something nice, loving, and heartfelt to your mate\u2014and you will fill your love bank account. In the process, you will build a strong and loving relationship.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: left;\"><strong>*Repair the relationship<\/strong>. Even Master couples disagree and fight with each other\u2014sometimes quite loudly and forcefully. The difference between them and the disaster couples is that they know how to repair the relationship. In the midst of a heated argument, one of them will say something funny, or perhaps offer a soothing physical gesture (hug or touch) to de-escalate the situation. They may also take an intelligent timeout (\u201cHoney, this is getting heated. I\u2019m going for a walk and will be back in ten minutes. Is it OK if we talk then?\u201d). As a result of their repair attempts, the relationship can survive hurt feelings, and the couple can work things out without harboring resentments that will come back later to damage the relationship.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: left;\">Yes, you and your partner can become a Master Couple\u2014a romantic pairing of truth, light, and love.\u00a0\u00a0You and your mate can practice the techniques of Kyle and Gottman to create a powerful, lasting, and loving relationship that stands the test of time. Start today and tell your partner how much you love them and can\u2019t live without them\u2014then demonstrate your love with small gestures and actions. When you do this, you will ride the wave of a beautiful love that serves as an example of relationship greatness for your children and everyone around you. Enjoy: Love is the greatest gift of all.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/apple.co\/2KMhRbe\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">CLICK HERE\u00a0for more on\u00a0<strong>BECOME A MASTER COUPLE AND CREATE THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE, WITH KYLE BENSON, INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP COACH AND FORMER RESEARCHER FOR THE WORLD RENOWNED GOTTMAN MARRIAGE INSTITUTE.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s Spring and love is in the air. Would you like to improve your relationship and keep your love strong and fulfilling? 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