{"id":2777,"date":"2022-05-30T05:07:12","date_gmt":"2022-05-30T05:07:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/?p=2777"},"modified":"2022-05-30T05:07:12","modified_gmt":"2022-05-30T05:07:12","slug":"the-twist-of-introversion-and-extraversion-why-your-partners-social-energy-level-can-make-a-big-difference-in-your-relationship-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/the-twist-of-introversion-and-extraversion-why-your-partners-social-energy-level-can-make-a-big-difference-in-your-relationship-happiness\/","title":{"rendered":"The Twist Of Introversion And Extraversion: Why Your Partner\u2019s Social Energy Level Can Make A Big Difference In Your Relationship Happiness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"THE TWIST OF INTROVERSION AND EXTRAVERSION: WHY YOUR PARTNER\u2019S SOCIAL ENERGY LEVEL CAN MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP HAPPINESS\" allowtransparency=\"true\" style=\"border: none; min-width: min(100%, 430px);\" scrolling=\"no\" data-name=\"pb-iframe-player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.podbean.com\/player-v2\/?from=embed&#038;i=b8i3w-1235ad0-pb&#038;share=1&#038;download=1&#038;fonts=Arial&#038;skin=1&#038;font-color=&#038;rtl=0&#038;logo_link=&#038;btn-skin=7&#038;size=150\" width=\"100%\" height=\"150\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/tinyurl.com\/mr6h798h\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Click here for the full show<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/3sqjHW5\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Click here for Dr. Avila\u2019s book, \u00a0<em>GuyTypes<\/em><em>:<strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><em>4 Ways to Find the Love of Your Life<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Are you an Introvert or an Extravert?\u00a0 Your social energy style can determine a lot about you and your best match in a long-term relationship. Introverts primarily like to get energy from their own thoughts and enjoy spending quiet, private time alone or with a few close friends. Extraverts primarily like to get energy from other people in social settings; they often have a lot of friends and acquaintances and love to socialize. On Love University Podcast, we talked about my book, <em>GuyTypes<\/em>, and explored the unique worlds of Introverts and Extraverts in love and relationships. Here\u2019s what you need to know to have a great relationship, whether you\u2019re an Introvert or an Extravert:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">*Determine Your Social Energy Style (Introvert\/Extravert).\u00a0 Before you seek a love partner, it\u2019s important that you know yourself first.\u00a0 To determine your Social Energy Style (Introvert\/Extravert), ask yourself the \u201cFun Question\u201d: What do you like to do for fun in your spare time? If you like to spend a lot of time reading, writing, thinking, listening to music, meditating, surfing the net, watching TV, or doing a hobby by yourself, then you\u2019re likely an Introvert. You make up about 50.7% of the population\u2014and are drawn to more introspective careers like engineering, science, research psychology, writing, accounting, and certain types of law. If you\u2019re an Extravert, you make up about 49.3% of\u00a0 the population, and you like to spend a majority of your time in the outside world and with other people in social settings. You enjoy parties, social gatherings, networking, live music venues, comedy clubs, concerts, and spending time with your many friends and acquaintances. You are drawn to fields such as sales, teaching, politics, acting\/entertainment, and human relations.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">*Appreciate Your Social Energy Style. Before you can love others, you need to love yourself. If you\u2019re an Introvert, make sure you appreciate that you are an internal person who can come up with great ideas. You\u2019re also a good listener, empathetic, and loyal (you like to settle in with the person you\u2019re with). As an Extravert, you can be grateful for your abundant social energy and ability to communicate and connect with others. You are a lively, vivacious, and charismatic mate who brings fun and adventure to your partner\u2019s life.\u00a0 Regardless of whether you\u2019re an Introvert or an Extravert, make sure you embrace and love your Social Energy style. If you do so, you will be happier with yourself and your love partner.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">*Identify your ideal mate\u2019s social energy style: Once you know and embrace your own Social Energy Style, ask the \u201cFun Question\u201d to determine the type of the person who is the best match for you. Research shows that similarities in this personality dimension (two Introverts or two Extraverts) do well together in long-term relationships. For example, an Introvert couple can enjoy their nights at home or with a few close friends. They tend to have a quiet, calm, and loving relationship. Also, two Extraverts in a relationship can be great love and business partners, as they excel at human interaction, networking, and marketing. Their time together can be a never-ending party of fun social times with the people they care about.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">One of the keys to a successful relationship is to respect your partner\u2019s personality type. This is especially important if you\u2019re in an opposites attract relationship; for example, an Introvert with an Extravert. If you\u2019re an Introvert, you can respect your Extravert\u2019s need to go out and connect with people without taking it personally (\u201cYou don\u2019t love me\u201d). If you\u2019re an Extravert, you can appreciate your Introvert\u2019s calming nature and their desire to spend time with you at home. In the end, compatible love is based on appreciation, respect, and mutual goals.\u00a0 If you can blend your strengths with your partner\u2019s natural abilities, you will have a great relationship that stands the test of time.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/tinyurl.com\/mr6h798h\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Click here for more on THE TWIST OF INTROVERSION AND EXTRAVERSION: WHY YOUR PARTNER\u2019S SOCIAL ENERGY LEVEL CAN MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP HAPPINESS<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Click here for the full show Click here for Dr. Avila\u2019s book, \u00a0GuyTypes:\u00a04 Ways to Find the Love of Your Life Are you an Introvert or an Extravert?\u00a0 Your social.. <span class=\"read_more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/the-twist-of-introversion-and-extraversion-why-your-partners-social-energy-level-can-make-a-big-difference-in-your-relationship-happiness\/\">Read more<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2778,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21,9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2777"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2777"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2777\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2779,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2777\/revisions\/2779"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2778"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2777"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2777"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2777"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}