{"id":2845,"date":"2022-12-10T04:53:24","date_gmt":"2022-12-10T04:53:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/?p=2845"},"modified":"2023-01-04T05:17:45","modified_gmt":"2023-01-04T05:17:45","slug":"love-warrior-part-two-how-to-be-intelligently-selfless-and-rule-your-world-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/love-warrior-part-two-how-to-be-intelligently-selfless-and-rule-your-world-part-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Love Warrior, Part Two: How To Be Intelligently Selfless And Rule Your World &#8211; Part 2"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"LOVE WARRIOR, PART TWO: HOW TO BE INTELLIGENTLY SELFLESS AND RULE YOUR WORLD\" allowtransparency=\"true\" style=\"border: none; min-width: min(100%, 430px);\" scrolling=\"no\" data-name=\"pb-iframe-player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.podbean.com\/player-v2\/?from=embed&#038;i=4aa2t-1334c63-pb&#038;share=1&#038;download=1&#038;fonts=Arial&#038;skin=1&#038;font-color=&#038;rtl=0&#038;logo_link=&#038;btn-skin=7&#038;size=150\" width=\"100%\" height=\"150\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/tinyurl.com\/mr6h798h\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL SHOW<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">In a world of conflict and strife, there is one who stands above. This individual is called the Love Warrior: a person who defuses hostility and brings harmony, peace, and balance into any situation.\u00a0 On our Love University Podcast, we showed you how to become a Love Warrior in our contentious world\u2014fighting for love, defeating nervousness, and finding victory with peace. On Part One of the Love Warrior Series, you will learn how to develop the powerful Love Warrior trait known as Confident Gentleness\u2014being strong and confident, yet humble and loving. Here\u2019s how you can become Confidently Gentle:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>*Spend time with gentle creatures.<\/strong>\u00a0 Watch YouTube videos, or spend time with (perhaps even own) a gentle creature like the Golden Retriever or Llama. As you observe these special gentle animal beings, visualize absorbing their gentle spirit within yourself.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>*Soften your voice.<\/strong>\u00a0 Become aware of how your voice changes when you are angry or upset. You may have a higher pitch, speak in an angry growl, or have a fast staccato voice. When you see yourself hardening and harshening your speech, make an effort to slow down and speak more softly. Take a deep breath and mentally repeat the words, \u201cGentle, soft, peaceful.\u201d This will help defuse your anger and calm your mind.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>*Be gentle with yourself<\/strong>.\u00a0 To be gentle with others, you first need to be gentle with yourself. Make sure you take the time to exercise, relax, spend time with loved ones, do your favorite hobbies\/activities, and engage in a spiritual\/meditative practice. Forgive your past mistakes or blunders. When you do this, you will love yourself more and develop an unshakeable inner confidence.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>*Let others win momentary battles.<\/strong>\u00a0 Instead of fighting so hard with other people over trivial matters, let them win.\u00a0 Give someone the parking space you normally would fight over, allow the other person to have the last word in the argument.\u00a0 When you do this, you are not being a pushover or loser. You are winning because you have won without having to fight a battle.\u00a0 You have taught the other person the value of gentleness and peace of mind. You have your mind on a higher aim:\u00a0 Trading a life of hostility and fighting for one of peace and love.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">You can be a Love Warrior: kind, compassionate, gentle, patient, firm, and confident.\u00a0 As a Love Warrior, you will respect yourself and others.\u00a0 You will set firm limits (boundaries) regarding the behavior of others toward you\u2014you won\u2019t let people take advantage of you. At the same time, you will be empathetic and compassionate. You realize that the angry or aggressive person is suffering from their own fiery nature. As a Love Warrior, you are not affected by the negativity of others because you live in a different place. It is called Love without expectation\u2014you stand firm and love others and the world, without expecting anything in return. Now you are invincible. You are the true Love Warrior.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/tinyurl.com\/mr6h798h\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Click here for more on <strong>LOVE WARRIOR, PART ONE: HOW TO COMBINE GENTLENESS WITH STRENGTH AND PEACE WITH POWER<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL SHOW In a world of conflict and strife, there is one who stands above. 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