{"id":2921,"date":"2023-07-17T11:47:39","date_gmt":"2023-07-17T11:47:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/?p=2921"},"modified":"2023-07-18T11:43:17","modified_gmt":"2023-07-18T11:43:17","slug":"you-will-find-your-people-eliminate-loneliness-and-find-wonderful-friends-with-special-guest-lane-moore-award-winning-actress-and-comedian-tinder-live","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/you-will-find-your-people-eliminate-loneliness-and-find-wonderful-friends-with-special-guest-lane-moore-award-winning-actress-and-comedian-tinder-live\/","title":{"rendered":"You Will Find Your People: Eliminate Loneliness And Find Wonderful Friends, With Special Guest, Lane Moore, Award-winning Actress And Comedian (\u201dtinder Live\u201d)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border: none; min-width: min(100%, 430px); height: 150px;\" title=\"YOU WILL FIND YOUR PEOPLE: ELIMINATE LONELINESS AND FIND WONDERFUL FRIENDS, WITH SPECIAL GUEST, LANE MOORE, AWARD-WINNING ACTRESS AND COMEDIAN (\u201dTINDER LIVE\u201d)\" src=\"https:\/\/www.podbean.com\/player-v2\/?from=embed&amp;i=j6kf4-1455f46-pb&amp;share=1&amp;download=1&amp;fonts=Arial&amp;skin=1&amp;font-color=&amp;rtl=0&amp;logo_link=&amp;btn-skin=7&amp;size=150\" width=\"100%\" height=\"150\" scrolling=\"no\" data-name=\"pb-iframe-player\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/tinyurl.com\/mr6h798h\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL SHOW<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/3NQxzTb\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">CLICK HERE FOR YOUTUBE:<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Have you ever felt lonely? Do you ever wish you could find more (and better) friends? Our guest on Love University Podcast, Lane Moore (<a href=\"http:\/\/lanemoore.org\/\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?q=http:\/\/lanemoore.org\/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1689663425636000&amp;usg=AOvVaw3GrMLjWWL-ETJuzos-GTB-\">lanemoore.org<\/a>), shared some of her secrets for finding (and keeping) great friends.\u00a0\u00a0Lane is an award-winning actress (HBO, \u201cGirls\u201d), comedian (\u201cTinder Live\u201d), musician (\u201cIt Was Romance\u201d), and writer (Sex and Relationships editor for Cosmopolitan) who specializes in friendship and dating advice. Here\u2019s what we learned about \u201cfinding your people\u201d\u2014those wonderful friends you can resonate with on a deep level:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>*Be a friend to yourself first.<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0In Lane\u2019s first book, \u201cHow to Be Alone,\u201d she explained how important it is to be comfortable with your aloneness and to treat yourself well, as a friend (take time to relax, say affirming things to yourself; give yourself self-care time). Once you\u2019re a good friend to yourself, you will set a higher standard for how others should treat you.\u00a0\u00a0You can recognize when your \u201cfriend\u201d is not treating you as well as you treat yourself.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>*Be empathetic.\u00a0<\/strong>To have great friends, you need to be a great friend. One of the best ways to do this is to practice empathy\u2014see the world from their perspective. Bring your friend their favorite coffee or music. Listen with full attentiveness to their problems, concerns, and sad tales. Even though you may not have experienced the same thing, you can empathize with them, \u201cI can\u2019t even imagine what that\u2019s like\u2014it sounds so painful.\u201d This will bring you closer.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>*Get a rescue dog and go to the dog park<\/strong>.\u00a0\u00a0Lane says that one of the best ways to make new friends is to spend time with a dog and other fellow dog lovers.\u00a0\u00a0Dogs are a great icebreaker and the unconditional love between you and your dog can help you be more open to loving other people.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>*Be wary of \u201cgood friends on paper<\/strong>.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0Some friends seem on the surface like they would be good for you\u2014charming, attractive, successful\u2014but in reality, they are only good in a theoretical sense (\u201con paper\u201d). When you\u2019re actually with them, you\u2019re not happy most of the time, and they may be toxic for you (negative, backstabbing, critical, abusive).\u00a0\u00a0Here\u2019s a clue: If they hate everyone else, but like you, be careful. They may turn against you as well. Avoid \u201cgood on paper friends,\u201d and find real, authentic friends.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Solid and compatible friendships are the bedrock of a happy and productive life.\u00a0\u00a0Friends can even turn into long-term romantic partners and spouses and fill your life with joy. Develop friendships like you would build a romantic relationship. Find compatible people, set clear expectations and boundaries, be empathetic, compassionate, and loving, and realize when things aren\u2019t working out and you need to move on to a more mutually fulfilling relationship. The bottom line is this: Be a friend to yourself, others, and the world\u2014giving loving energy without expectation\u2014and you will never be lonely again.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/tinyurl.com\/mr6h798h\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">CLICK HERE FOR MORE ON\u00a0<strong>YOU WILL FIND YOUR PEOPLE: ELIMINATE LONELINESS AND FIND WONDERFUL FRIENDS, WITH SPECIAL GUEST, LANE MOORE, AWARD-WINNING ACTRESS AND COMEDIAN (\u201dTINDER LIVE\u201d)<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>CLICK HERE FOR THE FULL SHOW CLICK HERE FOR YOUTUBE: Have you ever felt lonely? Do you ever wish you could find more (and better) friends? 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