{"id":706,"date":"2017-05-21T21:10:14","date_gmt":"2017-05-21T21:10:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/guytypes.com\/?p=245"},"modified":"2018-12-08T11:31:53","modified_gmt":"2018-12-08T11:31:53","slug":"does-money-matter-in-this-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/does-money-matter-in-this-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Does Money Matter in this Relationship?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Dear Dr. Alex:<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I love my boyfriend so much, but he is not making a lot of money. I am 22, and he says he is comfortable financially. What should I do?<br \/>\n&#8211;YuJung<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>DR. ALEX RESPONDS:<\/h2>\n<p>The first thing to do is to recognize\u00a0your LoveTemperament, your romantic personality type, and what is important to you.<\/p>\n<p>Since you indicate that it bothers you that your boyfriend is not making a lot of money, then you may be the type of personality called the Security Seeker\u2014you value tradition, structure, and security in your relationships. Although you are still young, finding a partner who can provide you with security (emotional and financial) and stability is something that\u2019s important to you.<\/p>\n<p>Consequently, you are best matched with another Security Seeker, a young man who also has the same values, and who wants to create a stable family structure.<\/p>\n<p>If your boyfriend is not that type, when you may need to reconsider the relationship. You may never be happy with him unless he is the type of hard-working and responsible provider who best matches your personality.<\/p>\n<p>You can find out how to find the love of your life in <a href=\"https:\/\/guytypes.com\/books\/guytypes\/\">GuyTypes<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/guytypes.com\/books\/guytypes\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-58 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/guytypes.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/GUYTYPES-coverfinal-FINAL-Pronoun-1-195x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"195\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>###<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Dr. Alex: I love my boyfriend so much, but he is not making a lot of money. I am 22, and he says he is comfortable financially. What should.. <span class=\"read_more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/does-money-matter-in-this-relationship\/\">Read more<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":727,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21,4,5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/706"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=706"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/706\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":728,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/706\/revisions\/728"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/727"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=706"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=706"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/loveuniversity.love\/testsite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=706"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}